My boyfriend doesn't want to go out with me?
I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. this was one of the first problems with him, that he doesn't want to do anything with me outside my apartment. he spends his days with his friends, hanging out outdoors, in the woods making campfire and drinking beer and so on and fishing and playing poker and so on. the other boyfriends girls are there often also but he hasn't invited me with him even once, i am staying home all the time because i don't have such "gang" to do different things with. i have few close friends with who we meet couple of times a week and just talk. but my boyfriend just comes to my place every night, after his busy day doing everything fun, while i just sit around at home and wait him. i have been telling him that it's a problem and suggesting things that we should do together but he doesn't seem to be interested. but overall he seems to be really in love with me, even overloving, he doesn't want me to go to school to the other city and suspects me all the time that i'm cheating, although he is my first boyfriend and i am not that kinda girl who has lot of boy friends. i am so unhappy all the time and we are fighting about it all the time but he doesn't understand that i would like to do something fun with him out of my apartment. i don't want to break up with him because i really love him and his my first love and he loves me soo much. what should i do?

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I need help figuring this out?
Okay...um, this is my first post. Me and my brother, who is twenty, and I am nineteen, have gotten into a scuffle over two Pokemon games. Now here's the situation: That idiot sold his Nintendo handheld system he bought during his working shift. After a few months, he decides to sell it after realizing that he wanted to pimp out his account with a collector's edition of some computer game. So he purchased it along with some extra game and what not...then realized that he missed Soul Silver, then attempts to play it on the computer. After failing at that, now the fool wants his original game back. Of course I didn't just give it to him without unleashing a piece of my mind. So I called him two face, and some other stuff, including a woman beater. As time passed, he literally broke my things (Ear buds, PS3 games, controller) along with throwing house hold products, ripping up some paper for college and other dreadful actions. I had to move my other materials out the way, including this laptop, numerous times before he broke that too. Even threw water at my mother and my red 3DS. (The volume still works. Appears to be a scratch on it. Hate him for that...) So after the fight, my mother and I haven't been speaking to him fully since last Thursday . As a result, he stopped completing everyday chores. I mean..it already takes him ages just to wash the dishes, take out the trash, doesn't even sweep the damn floor. I don't know if he has the mentality that centers around women that are suppose to complete the most house work while he sits up in the house like a fat cat. Our father had always washed the dishes, shared most of the food, hogged the computer to play poker games on Pogo.com, etc. xD The point I'm trying to display just for bringing him up in particular is that he had kept going to work and paid most of the bills. This simpleton who thinks he's the shit does not. Our father never turned up the volume to play his game, eat up all the food, talk hurtful crap when he's mad. In fact, if he was here then none of this would have happened. Things would have been different.. What I'm trying to say is that...would he be an abuser in real life? Whenever he breaks down and answers questions, he claims that no one could help him. To me, that's as if you don't want to try and change your self. If he keeps thinking that his ways to get people to back off is correct then that's just a narrow way of defiance. It's funny how when I ran around committing terrible occurrences last summer, there was a recommendation for therapy lessons when in reality, he needs them the most. I'm mostly fine with my life. There's no complaints here.. I would like to hear what you guys have to say. :3 P.S When I ran into his friends...they didn't say a single word to me like they usually do. I dunno if they felt awkward after figuring out his side of the story, which regardless wasn't the right thing to do no matter how he hard he tries to defend his reason by smashing my possessions.

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my dad is a total JERK!?
he such a freaking jerk and a scumbag! he sits on the computer all day/night on fb, and sleeps the whole day. HE HAS NO LIFE WHATSEVER! he sits there and smokes while he plays poker (wow he opens to windows but yet it still smells like smoke) when hes playing poker (on the computer!). and then i tell him in a nice way to PLEASE stop smoking in the house, whats wrong with outside? and then last night he said "get out of my face! go in your room!" i freaking hate him. i hate to say this, but if he died i would seriously NOT CARE! now thats pretty sad! i know a lot of people dont like their dads cause a llot of them are jerks like mine. my little brother is 6 and he is autistic and when he gets on his nervs he pushes him and yells in his ear, but my brother just laughs cause he really doesnt know thats a punishment. ive cried lots of times cause i feel like hes not normal, and that the fact i dont love him. he acts SOO IMMATURE ITS NOT EVEN CLOSE TO FUNNY!!! he seriously acts like a lazy child. he tries like 1 every 3 times to find a job, but of course he doesnt get one, i mean who would hire a nasty lazy scumbag like him? soo what do i do? if i tell him how i feel, hes just gonna yell at me probably.

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